CHARACTER TYPE AND TROPE THESAURUS

PATRIARCH



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DESCRIPTION:
This character is the male elder with the most authority in his family, tribe, or clan. Patriarchs aren't limited to biological fathers but can also be found in leaders, mentors, or influential figures within a community.

FICTIONAL EXAMPLES:
Tywin Lannister (A Song of Ice and Fire), King Priam of Troy (The Illiad), Mr. Bennet (Pride and Prejudice), Vito Corleone (The Godfather), Tevye (Fiddler on the Roof

COMMON STRENGTHS:

COMMON WEAKNESSES:

ASSOCIATED ACTIONS, BEHAVIORS, AND TENDENCIES:
Being known for his wisdom and intelligence
Commanding respect, and usually deserving it
Teaching and mentoring others
Wanting to pass on a legacy
Being protective of his own family, kin, or charges
Making decisions for the family
Disciplining his “children” to correct them
Giving generously
Supporting people in need
Being experienced and knowledgeable
Leading with authority and confidence
Making great sacrifices for his family
Willingly making hard choices for the good of his family
Passing on traditions and values to others
Having integrity and a strong moral code 
Having a deep sense of justice
Fighting for the underdog
Being ruthless to help his family gain advantages over others
Being possessive and territorial about what he's gained for the family
Thinking strategically
Keeping tabs on his charges
Being stern but fair
Inflexibly insisting that what he says, goes
Appearing callous to the desires of others
Taking an objective view of conflicts within the family
Forgiving the mistakes of others

FEARS THAT MIGHT LIMIT THE CHARACTER:

SITUATIONS THAT WILL CHALLENGE THEM:
A beloved child or subordinate taking independent actions that undermine the family's security (with no remorse)
Confronting a threatening force the patriarch doesn't know if he can defeat
A treasured child confronting him about his double standards and rejecting him or his teachings 
Having to mediate between family members with valid arguments

INNER STRUGGLES TO GIVE THEM DEPTH:
Having to discipline a charge for a moral shortcoming the patriarch secretly struggles with
Not wanting to cause his charge pain, but needing to teach them a lesson
Having a terminal illness and worrying about what will happen to the family after he dies
Having to meet the conflicting needs of different family members
Knowing that times are changing but being reluctant to change with them

CLICHÉS TO BE AWARE OF:
A father who refuses to listen to his teenager's point of view, insisting they follow his dictates as long as they live in his house
An obstinate traditionalist who won't budge, even on customs and traditions that are no longer relevant or are actively harming the family
A martyr who sacrifices his own desires for the good of the family, to his own detriment
A businessman whose pursuit of success and power outside the home means he is neglecting his family's needs
A wise grandfather who exists only to dispense advice and has no character arc, flaws, or struggles of his own

TWIST THIS TROPE WITH A CHARACTER WHO...:
Is a devoted father who is irresponsible and carefree most of the time
Adheres to tradition but is willing to change and adapt based on new information and circumstances
Is morally gray in what they're willing to do to protect their family
Is unassuming and quiet but still commands respect and love from their family
Takes a collaborative approach to leadership, consulting with the family before making decisions, and empowering their children to act
Embraces modern values and encourages their children to keep open minds
Has an atypical trait: Weak-willed, timid, irresponsible, indecisive, unintelligent, etc.

UNEXPECTED OCCUPATIONS FOR THIS CHARACTER:

CREATE SOMETHING NEW:
Patriarch + Peacekeeper
Patriarch + Free Spirit
Patriarch + Knight-Errant
Patriarch + Monster