SECRET THESAURUS

HIDING A GAMBLING PROBLEM



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Secrets represent a past your character wants to forget and a future they want to prevent, so give them something that will change everything if it gets out. Mine their emotional wounds, relationships, fears, or occupations for ideas, and consider how this secret could tie into your story's theme.
ABOUT THIS SECRET:
Like any addiction, the first step in overcoming a gambling problem is to recognize it. But even if your character acknowledges their out-of-control behavior, the underlying fear, shame, or disconnection that drove them to it in the first place often will remain unaddressed until they reach a point of crisis. And by then, the fallout can be disastrous.

CATEGORY:
Financial Secrets (primary); Betrayals and Violation of Trust; Illegal or Immoral Acts

SIMILAR OR RELATED SECRETS:

SPECIFIC FEARS THAT MAY DRIVE THE NEED FOR SECRECY:

HOW THIS SECRET COULD HOLD THE CHARACTER BACK:
Missing out on smart investment opportunities because their money has been gambled away
Isolating themselves from loved ones to hide their addiction
Becoming obsessed with getting their next fix instead of engaging in healthy, life-giving activities with people who care about them
Losing so much money that they don't have enough to meet their family's basic needs
Performance or work at school deteriorating
Ending up homeless

BEHAVIORS OR HABITS THAT HELP HIDE THIS SECRET:
Gambling online or through other covert means
Lying about the activities and expenditures to partners or friends
Borrowing money to cover shortfalls so a partner doesn't suspect
Having “cover hobbies” they're supposedly engaging in when they're really going out to gamble
Minimizing the amount of time they spend at casinos or on betting websites
Under-reporting the amount of money they've lost

ACTIVITIES OR TENDENCIES THAT MAY RAISE SUSPICIONS:
Refusing to allow a partner to see financial statements
Making excuses about unexplained deficits in their income or spending 
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SITUATIONS THAT MAKE KEEPING THIS SECRET A CHALLENGE:
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SCENARIOS THAT MAY ENCOURAGE THEM TO LET THE SECRET GO:
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RESULTS OF THE SECRET BEING REVEALED OR DISCOVERED:
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