SECRET THESAURUS

BEING MARRIED



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Secrets represent a past your character wants to forget and a future they want to prevent, so give them something that will change everything if it gets out. Mine their emotional wounds, relationships, fears, or occupations for ideas, and consider how this secret could tie into your story's theme.
ABOUT THIS SECRET:
The obvious reason for a character hiding their marital status is because they want to hook up with someone they're not married to. But there are other drivers for keeping this information secret. Perhaps they privately married someone outside their family's faith, culture, or socioeconomic status to avoid being disinherited, excommunicated, or shunned. In some scenarios, a married character may be unable to join an organization or participate in certain activities (usually related to religious orders or governmental and military agencies). And in extreme environments, either party's life may be endangered if the secret is discovered. But a marriage is an intimate and important relationship that's difficult to hide, making this secret a hard one to keep. 

CATEGORY:
Family and Relationships (primary), Hidden Identity, Illegal or Immoral Acts

SIMILAR OR RELATED SECRETS:

SPECIFIC FEARS THAT MAY DRIVE THE NEED FOR SECRECY:

HOW THIS SECRET COULD HOLD THE CHARACTER BACK:
Feeling hypocritical for being dishonest with people they care about
Not being able to go live out their love publicly
Having to actually deny their feelings about the person they love
Strain in the relationship from having to carefully plan every interaction
Spending a lot of energy leading a double life
The spouse feeling neglected or resentful about the subterfuge
Avoiding family gatherings
Being unable to have a baby
Only being able to spend limited time together\

BEHAVIORS OR HABITS THAT HELP HIDE THIS SECRET:
The character and their spouse claiming to only be roommates
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ACTIVITIES OR TENDENCIES THAT MAY RAISE SUSPICIONS:
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SITUATIONS THAT MAKE KEEPING THIS SECRET A CHALLENGE:
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SCENARIOS THAT MAY ENCOURAGE THEM TO LET THE SECRET GO:
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RESULTS OF THE SECRET BEING REVEALED OR DISCOVERED:
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