RELATIONSHIP THESAURUS

CAREGIVER AND CLIENT



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Relationships are part of the very fabric of your character’s life. How well or poorly they get along with others oftentimes comes down to personality, so carefully consider the positive traits and negative traits of your story’s cast. Another factor that can pull characters together or create friction is motivation, so keep each individual’s goal—both at the scene and story level—in mind as you write.
DESCRIPTION:
There are moments in time when caregivers are needed. If your character is elderly, injured, recovering from surgery, mentally disabled, or a pregnant woman on bedrest, someone may be hired to help them out. Caregivers can be round-the-clock and live-in helpers or they might come during certain hours when family members aren't available. They might be hired for a limited period of time or in perpetuity. They may be a professional caregiver or a neighbor or friend of the family who is hired to do the job. Regardless of the details, this relationship is based implicitly on trust, with a vulnerable party depending on someone to meet their most basic needs.

RELATIONSHIP DYNAMICS:
Below are a wide range of dynamics that may accompany this relationship. Use the ideas that suit your story and work best for your characters to bring about and/or resolve the necessary conflict.

A more personal relationship where both parties express an interest in each other's lives
A caregiver who sees and does whatever needs doing, even if doing so takes them outside their scope of duties
A purely professional relationship, with the caregiver clocking in, doing their duties, and clocking out as needed
A client who treats the caregiver as a servant or lackey
A caregiver who meets their client's needs while secretly taking advantage of them behind the scenes
An apathetic caregiver who's only in the job for the paycheck
A client struggling with a lack of control or dissatisfaction with their circumstances taking their frustrations out on the caregiver
An abusive relationship, one way or the other
A healthy relationship that is undermined by interfering, selfish, or drama-seeking family members

CHALLENGES THAT COULD THREATEN THE STATUS QUO:
A client's condition worsening
Money running out, making it difficult or impossible for the client to pay for a caregiver
A situation that steals the caregiver's time, such as them moving farther from the client, having to take on a second job, or starting a romantic relationship
A personal friend offering to do the caregiver's job for less money
The caregiver becoming injured or sick and needing care themselves
The caregiver becoming attracted to a family member

WOUNDS THAT COULD FACTOR INTO THE RELATIONSHIP:
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CONFLICTING DESIRES THAT CAN IMPAIR THE RELATIONSHIP:
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CLASHING PERSONALITY TRAIT COMBINATIONS:
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NEGATIVE OUTCOMES OF FRICTION:
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FICTIONAL SCENARIOS THAT COULD TURN THESE CHARACTERS INTO ALLIES:
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WAYS THIS RELATIONSHIP MAY LEAD TO POSITIVE GROWTH:
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THEMES AND SYMBOLS THAT CAN BE EXPLORED THROUGH THIS RELATIONSHIP:
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